“The Build Your Own Package lets couples infuse their unique touch without reinventing the wheel. You get the basics you need, plus the freedom to bring in your favorite vendors – making it an awesome blend of convenience and personal flexibility.”
Build Your Own Wedding Package: Custom & Completely You
For couples who want full creative control, our Build Your Own Wedding Package lets you handpick every detail. Think of it as a wedding buffet — choose what you love, skip what you don’t, and create a celebration that reflects your personality, style, and priorities.
This flexible option complements our Classic, Premier, and Elite packages. Instead of a preset bundle, you collaborate with our team to select catering, décor, entertainment, and unique experiences to make your day 100% yours — with our expert support every step of the way.
Why Couples Love It
When you choose the Build Your Own Wedding Package, you’re getting the ultimate say in every aspect of your celebration — without the stress of tracking down individual vendors or juggling multiple contracts. You’ll still have our expert team coordinating everything, but you get to decide exactly where your budget and creativity go. Adding a custom wedding cake from our artisanal bakers, a delicious appetizer selection, snacks, signature cocktails, or extending your event by an hour or two – these ideas can add extra joy to your event.
Got more ideas? Let us know and we’ll do our best to make it happen! In addition to offering flexibility, the Build Your Own Package is an excellent way to keep within your budget. If you already have specific vendors in mind or fancy rolling up your sleeves for some DIY, this option empowers you to stay within your financial lanes. It’s the practical path to personalization, ensuring your wedding reflects your style without breaking the bank.
Benefits Include
- Total Flexibility: Pick only the elements that matter most to you
- Creative Freedom: Mix, match, and customize to suit your theme, tastes, and budget
- Trusted Support: We handle the logistics so you can focus on the fun parts
- Inclusive Approach: Options for all styles, traditions, and types of celebrations
Why the Build Your Own Wedding Package Is a Great Choice
The Build Your Own package is for couples who want their celebration to feel truly personal without taking on the headaches of DIY planning. You get all the perks of a professional, all-inclusive venue team — plus the freedom to shape the experience exactly how you envision it.
Whether you’re dreaming of a sleek city soirée, a rustic barn gathering, or a vibrant cultural celebration, we’ll help you pull it together with style, ease, and zero stress. With us, you’re not navigating a hundred moving parts alone — you’ve got a trusted partner who’s just as invested in making it unforgettable as you are.
All of our packages start with the essentials built-in:
- Your choice of beautiful venue
- A dedicated wedding coordinator
- Access to our trusted vendor network
- Personalized digital planning tool
- Rehearsal coordination
- Seating & tables
- China, silverware, and glassware
- Cocktail area, bar, and dance floor
- Complete setup & breakdown services
- Wedding day venue management
- Exclusive Bliss Benefits™
Add Personality & Flair to Your Wedding
Our Build Your Own wedding package makes it easy to infuse your celebration with personality and fun. From sweet endings to interactive experiences, here are some favorite ways couples get creative:
Dessert
Choose a traditional tiered wedding cake or a display of cupcakes for a delicious finale.
Charger Plates
Add elegant charger plates to create a polished, cohesive tablescape.
Lighting
Transform your space with accent lighting in colors that match your theme.
Elite Chairs
Upgrade to statement chairs that double as décor.
Extra Time
Extend your celebration by an extra hour or two to savor more moments with your loved ones.
Have Questions? We’re Here to Help.
Absolutely! We love when couples let their style shine through special touches. Whether you’ve fallen in love with vintage champagne coupes, themed lounge seating, or any other unique rental pieces, we’re here to make it happen! If diving into all these details isn’t your thing, don’t worry — we’ve got you covered! Our beautiful house style serves as the perfect foundation, and you have complete freedom to upgrade any individual elements to create exactly the look you’re dreaming of. It’s all about making your celebration feel authentically you.
You’re going to love this! The Build Your Own package includes a complimentary no-host bar with professional bartenders (we’ll match the number to your guest count perfectly). Your fully stocked bar comes complete with everything you need: a fantastic variety of liquors, beer, wine, soda, juice, ice, glassware, and all the extras that make a great bar service. Here’s what makes us different from many venues — there are absolutely no bar minimums or hidden bartender fees. It’s just our straightforward commitment to making your celebration as smooth and budget-friendly as possible! If you want an open bar where drinks are on the house, just ask your venue team about adding it à la carte, or take a look at our Premier package which includes this fantastic upgrade.
Yes, absolutely! Our wedding experts have thoughtfully considered every single thing that’s crucial for creating an amazing celebration, and we’ve made sure all the basics are covered so you can focus on the fun stuff. You’ll have an experienced day-of team who knows exactly how to make everything run smoothly, access to all our essential items and services, a beautiful ceremony focal point, and yes — even a backup plan for unexpected weather. You can count on having a dedicated planning team supporting you every step of the way — it’s all included as standard because we believe every couple deserves this level of care and expertise.
Think of our other packages as thoughtfully curated collections — they come with a beautiful set of coordinated inclusions that work perfectly together. Build Your Own, on the other hand, is like starting with a blank canvas where you become the artist! With this package, you have the freedom to choose each element individually—from your catering style and décor aesthetic to entertainment options and those special extra touches that make your celebration uniquely yours. It’s perfect for couples who have a very specific vision or love having control over every detail.
Absolutely, this is one of our favorite approaches. Many couples fall in love with one of our beautifully designed preset packages and then use Build Your Own add-ons to customize and enhance it even further. It’s like having the best of both worlds — the convenience of a coordinated package with the flexibility to add your own special touches. Our team loves helping couples create these perfect hybrid celebrations!
Not at all! Build Your Own is flexible and works wonderfully for intimate celebrations with just a few loved ones, charming mid-size gatherings, or grand celebrations with big guest lists. The size, scope, and style are entirely up to you — that’s the beauty of this approach. Whether you’re planning a cozy gathering of 20 or a festive party of 200, we can create something perfectly tailored to your vision and guest count.
Of course! We’d be delighted to guide you through this exciting process. Our experienced team absolutely love walking couples through all the amazing options available, making personalized recommendations based on your unique vision and style, and ensuring that every single detail works together seamlessly. Think of us as your trusted wedding advisors — we’re here to share our expertise, offer honest advice, and help you make choices that will create the celebration of your dreams. You’ll never feel overwhelmed or alone in the decision-making process.
Love Notes
“Everything felt effortless from beginning to end. We were able to make the celebration feel completely personal while still having everything we needed in one place.”
“The flexibility made planning so much easier. We could keep the experience intimate, elegant and true to our own style without feeling restricted.”
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